When the World Doesn't Fill Me

by Hannah Clements

Y'all, “words of affirmation” is my love language. Like for real, give me all the accolades. I will eat them up with a spoon. My 29th birthday just rolled around, and my one wish from my husband was “tell me twenty-nine things you love about me” (eyes batting, waiting with anticipation) and immediately my love tank is full. 

Right now, if I am being honest, I haven't felt very affirmed lately. My love tank is running on “E”. 

I secretly want to be the best, but a co-worker of mine seems to get more accolades than me. In the middle of a positive yet major life transition, my husband is stressed. Therefore, there is very little time for “sweet nothings” to be whispered in my ear.  My volleyball team lost every game of the season. Every. Single. Game. I will note that although my athletic ability is low, my desire to win is high. #humbling 

God isn't surprised by this season, the one where affirmations are few. I don't feel like I am winning, being successful or, at times, even noticed. Perhaps, He has waited anxiously for this season because He knew that when the world doesn't fill me I will come running to His word for affirmation.  

Here are some truths straight from the Creator of the Universe given to affirm me and to affirm you. 

I am delighted in. - Zephaniah 3:17

I am redeemed. - Psalm 49:15

I am heard. - Psalm 116:1&2

I am known. - Psalm 139:2

I am seen. - Psalm 139:3

I am never alone. - Psalm 139:7

I am wonderfully made. - Psalm 139:14

I am free. - Romans 6:22 

I am gifted. - 1 Corinthians 12:7

I am Christ’s Ambassador. - 2 Corinthians 5:20

I am God’s masterpiece. - Ephesians 2:10 

I am chosen and God’s special possession. - 1 Peter 2:9 

Friends, we can claim these truths over ourselves simply because of His goodness. Not because of anything that we have done but because of what has been done and given to us.  We can stand confidently in the seasons full of accolades and the seasons that go unseen.  

Oh Lord, 

Thank you that my identity can be found in you. You see me and know me, and you still delight in me. Thank you for your word and for the truths and encouragement you provide. You are good!

Amen.